The way people act to you can be a reflection of yourself

A man on a long journey approached a wise man sitting by the side of the road. “Old man, tell me, what are the people like in the village up ahead?” “Well, son, tell me what the people were like where you come from.” “Oh, they were wonderful. Hospitable, honorable, hard working and selfless.” “My … More The way people act to you can be a reflection of yourself

Stop carrying the horse on your shoulders; put him between your legs and ride him

Through my childhood years, I’ve been preached at many times regarding the different traits and characters that I should have.  As an example, I remember being told often that I should not be greedy.  I should not be proud.  Anger is not good, and neither is laziness.  I’m sure there’s a few others that I’m … More Stop carrying the horse on your shoulders; put him between your legs and ride him

You are not Mother Teresa; perhaps that’s ok.

One thing I’ve noticed is that many parents try to raise their children to be “good”, this is especially more common in middle class families.  I certainly was raised to be “good”. In this case “good” is a nebulous concept that the parents never clearly define, but simply repeat to the children.  Be good.  Be … More You are not Mother Teresa; perhaps that’s ok.